Summery: In this episode of the Marriage Code podcast, Phillip and Benji revisit the skill of Active Listening as they explore the answer to the question: How I get someone to understand what I’m trying to say?
“How can we assume that what we heard is what they meant, when so often it’s not?” – Benji Boekweg
Links:
www.themarriagecode.org
Coco – Remember me – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3iDxU9eNQ_0
Dude, Where’s My Car – Tatoo scene – https://youtu.be/BMuGjeoS3qI
https://www.franklincovey.com/
In this episode:
- What we hear
- How to guarantee you understand the other person
- Getting the other person to understand you
- The three answers
- Yes, that’s it
- Yes, and…
- No, that’s not it
- Intent then Skill (Franklin R Covey)
- The power of silence
- Active Listening
- Listen
- Re-phrase
- Validate
- Pause
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